Friday, July 12, 2013

Nagging Wife? A Bunch of Hormones!


Most men seem to have a nagging woman in their life. It could be their wife, girlfriend, sister, mother, even a colleague at work. For some men, it is like everywhere they go; they are confronted by a bunch of unbearable women that they cannot stand.

Nagging is something most women do at a particular point of their life. I have to add an exception that some people are naturally difficult and this does not apply in any way to women alone. It is a general temperamental disposition that different people find different persons unbearable, but the context I am looking at is in a normal situation where the woman is not naturally that way, but seems to be like that sometimes.

This is about that time of the month! It has been shown medically that during a woman's ovulation and menstruation, particular hormones are being released (you can check that out) and these hormones have some irritable effect on the woman, which for some can be translated as nagging. Women differ in their body. That is why every woman does not have the same cycle and the same pre-menstrual syndrome (PMS) or the same ovulation dates and pains, etc. They are just different and they also respond differently to the hormonal levels in their body, so you do not say "my ex never nags me and she had a cycle!" No, it is different strokes for different folks as far as women cycles are concerned.

This is what happens: the woman is about to see her menstruation and she has PMS and the hormones are raging high and you are expecting her to still be her normal self. For some women, they do not even have an explanation to what is happening to them, so they cannot explain it to you. You get angry at her that she is having 'unnecessary' mood swings and then, she gets back at you because she feels you are supposed to understand and show some care and support, but you do not. You get angry more because she is angry and lash out on her and... it goes on and on. Finally, you conclude that she is nagging and irritable some times and it becomes some issue.

The reason the hormone thing gets to the point of nagging is lack of understanding from the guy because the woman just wants you to listen and do what she wants for those few days and everybody will be happy. Some guys do not know about it because, no one has told them and that is why I hope this helps. So, it is no big deal guys, just some few days of not arguing with her and a little more tenderness and you do not end up with a nagging woman!

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